Oh dear, I am so very sorry Marie. Why do they live such short lives? It must be to teach us something, but that is some learning I could do without, except that without death we would not have such cherished lives. Cherish the memories, they will live on forever. The pain will, too, but the pain is worth the memories - don't ever think otherwise! She was worth the heartache, I am sure. Sweet little face she had! I wish I had known her.
"We who choose to surround ourselves with lives even more temporary than our own, live within a fragile circle; easily and often breached. Unable to accept its awful gaps, we would still live no other way. We cherish memory as the only certain immortality, never fully understanding the necessary plan." — Irving Townsend
When my precious Bauer passed away, someone posted this on our blog...
“We who choose to surround ourselves With lives even more temporary than our own, Live within a fragile circle- Easily and often breached. Unable to accept it’s awful gaps, We would still live no other way .”
I was forever altered by the loss of Bauer. I know you saw that. I have lost human friends that didn't hurt me as badly as that. I hope that doesn't seem crazy, but I can't help it. I'm sure it makes sense to you and your devoted readers.
I loved the Moo. She was such a snuggly, little snorty buddy. She made the most fabulous noises and was so wonderfully Velcro in her nature.
What a pleasure to have her in my store when she visited! What a lovely spirit! She was always noble. alot like Mr. B...even when sick, carried herself with dignity and grace. What a LADY!
When I pray tonight, I will ask Bauer to watch over her...he won't let anyone knock her over or steal her snacks.
I miss you and I will certainly pray for you and your family during this difficult time.
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My Story
In 1992, after serving for 6 years in the United States Marine Corps, I decided to settle down in my hometown in Mid-Coast Maine. I got my first dog, (as a bona-fide adult) an akita, and joined the local kennel club. I also joined akita rescue and learned alot about the breed. In turn I began helping educate others. This taught me how important training is for ALL dogs. Thus began my (unofficial) foray into the world of dog training.
I worked for a few years at a local veterinarians office and then began working at our local humane society. While there I saw many dogs being given up for simple training issues. About that time the kennel club began looking for a new trainer to teach group obedience classes. I decided I might be able to handle that challenge once I had more official training of my own.
MY TRAINING:
I found an excellent trainer to mentor with and in October of 2001 after a year of hands on training and study I completed my apprenticeship under Lloyd Williams of Bear Brook Kennels. During that apprenticeship, in addition to learning all the basics, I got to assist in the training of police dogs in narcotics, tracking and cadaver dogs with the medical examiners office.
Not only did I learn how to be a dog trainer, more importantly, I learned how to teach owners how they could communicate more effectively with their dogs. I consider that training just the beginning in my canine education. I continue to attend seminars and keep current through reading about recent advancements in dog training methods. I am a former member of The Association of Professional Dog Trainers.
I use positive reinforcement methods whenever possible during training sessions. Positive reinforcement helps make the training experience more enjoyable for both the dog and owner, producing a better learning environment. I also utilize hand signals in my training which is very useful with deaf dogs as well as hearing ones. My methods include lure/reward and marker training. (with or without a clicker depending on owner preference)
MY GOALS:
My goal in training is to help pet owners develop a better relationship with their dogs. Many times that includes teaching about canine communication and behavior. I also like to help dogs stay out of the shelters and in their homes whenever possible. Training for those unruly dogs can make that a reality for some families.
MY OTHER JOBS:
I am currently the trainer for the HSKC's K-9 Corrections program. I also work as a receptionist at a local veterinary hospital.
MY FAMILY:
I am happily married and the mother of two fabulous children.
Can't afford a trainer? Check out these site's for free advice:
11-09 Self Control and Focus Games with Dee Ganley CPDT/CABC/CDBC
6-09 Dog to Dog Aggression with Patricia McConnell PhD
7-08 Debunking the Dominance Myth in Training with Jean Donaldson
6-08 PitBull Education Seminar with Drayton Michaels
3-08 Aggression and Canine Compulsion Disorders with Dr. Nicholas Dodman
4-07 How to Talk Dog with Sarah Kalnajs
6-06 Understanding Canine Body Language with Trish King
4-06 Aggression in Dogs 2 Day Seminar with Brenda Aloff
10-05 Play with Me and Feisty Fidos with Pia Silvani CPDT,CABC
2005 Canine Communication, Meet your Match and and Intro to "Safer" Training with Emily Weiss PhD
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G.G. and Minos are English bulldogs that belong to my sister. They are half siblings. (Sorry their breeder doesn't currently have a website but you can contact me FMI.)
13 comments:
There are no words. So so sorry.
So sorry for your loss. We will be thinking about you. I know what a horrible time this is - it's just the worst saying goodbye to our best friends.
I am so very sorry, Marie. Rest in peace, Missy.
Oh dear, I am so very sorry Marie. Why do they live such short lives? It must be to teach us something, but that is some learning I could do without, except that without death we would not have such cherished lives. Cherish the memories, they will live on forever. The pain will, too, but the pain is worth the memories - don't ever think otherwise! She was worth the heartache, I am sure. Sweet little face she had! I wish I had known her.
I am so sorry for you and your family.
You can just see on her face how much she knew she was loved <3
so sorry marie. Missy lived such a wonderful life with you. we're thinking of you ~ Tomo Nani & monica & blaine
So sorry for your loss. Godspeed, Missy.
I am so sorry, Marie. :[
"We who choose to surround ourselves with lives even more temporary than our own, live within a fragile circle;
easily and often breached.
Unable to accept its awful gaps,
we would still live no other way.
We cherish memory as the only
certain immortality, never fully
understanding the necessary plan."
— Irving Townsend
I am so sorry for your loss Marie...my deepest sympathy to you and your family.
M,
When my precious Bauer passed away, someone posted this on our blog...
“We who choose to surround ourselves
With lives even more temporary than our own,
Live within a fragile circle-
Easily and often breached.
Unable to accept it’s awful gaps,
We would still live no other way .”
I was forever altered by the loss of Bauer. I know you saw that. I have lost human friends that didn't hurt me as badly as that. I hope that doesn't seem crazy, but I can't help it. I'm sure it makes sense to you and your devoted readers.
I loved the Moo. She was such a snuggly, little snorty buddy. She made the most fabulous noises and was so wonderfully Velcro in her nature.
What a pleasure to have her in my store when she visited! What a lovely spirit! She was always noble. alot like Mr. B...even when sick, carried herself with dignity and grace. What a LADY!
When I pray tonight, I will ask Bauer to watch over her...he won't let anyone knock her over or steal her snacks.
I miss you and I will certainly pray for you and your family during this difficult time.
Thank you everyone for your thoughts. I am deeply touched by your support and prayers. She was a great dog and will be dearly missed by all of us.
I am so sorry my friend. Donna and I are thinking of you.
It is such a loss that only time can mend. But it is always a new start when the end comes.
Godspeed.
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